When Your Gut Isn’t Enough

By VICKY BROWN

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Trusting your gut is part of what got you this far. It’s what helped you launch your business, make quick calls, and grow from an idea into something real. But when your role shifts from founder to employer—from builder to leader—the stakes change. Especially when it comes to people decisions.

Why Gut Instinct Isn’t a Strategy

Gut instinct is a starting point—but it’s not a plan. And when you’re making decisions about hiring, discipline, or terminations, you need more than just intuition. These choices affect people’s livelihoods and your company culture. They also come with real compliance risks if not handled carefully.

Without clear documentation or a consistent process, even the best intentions can backfire. I’ve worked with business owners who were shocked to find themselves on the defensive after firing someone “because it just wasn’t working out.” When the challenge came—whether from an unemployment claim, a discrimination complaint, or internal pushback—they didn’t have a leg to stand on. No policies, no performance reviews, no documentation.

The Danger of the Gray Area

Most leadership decisions don’t happen in black and white. They happen in the gray—when someone’s performance is borderline, or when you’re hiring quickly under pressure, or when someone’s behavior feels off but isn’t clearly against any rule. This is where gut instinct is most tempting—and most unreliable.

It’s also where emotion creeps in. Maybe you’re loyal to an early hire who’s no longer a fit. Maybe you’ve delayed acting because confrontation is hard. These emotional pressures are normal—but they cloud judgment. And when there’s no framework in place, your team will feel that inconsistency. Standards shift. Trust erodes. And soon, you’re not leading—you’re reacting.

…Most leadership decisions don’t happen in black and white. They happen in the gray.

Structure Creates Clarity (Without Killing Agility)

Here’s the good news: you don’t need a 100-page employee handbook or an in-house HR department. You just need a few foundational tools that create clarity and consistency. Things like:

  • A written job description before you post a role.
  • An offer letter that outlines pay, expectations, and classification.
  • A basic onboarding checklist.
  • A simple process for coaching and documenting performance issues.

These are the tools that support your gut—not replace it. They give you something to reference when you’re not sure what to do. They help you move faster, not slower, because you’re not starting from scratch every time.

Authenticity Doesn’t Mean Winging It

There’s a myth that structure means becoming robotic. That if you use templates or processes, you’re no longer leading from the heart. But the opposite is true. Clear expectations are a gift to your team. Consistency earns trust. And aligning your people decisions with your values is what makes you a respected leader—not just a likable one.

When you lead from both instinct and intention, you make decisions that are not only authentic, but also defensible, fair, and aligned with the culture you’re trying to build.

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Before You Act, Ask Yourself These Questions

The next time you’re about to make a gut-based people decision, pause and ask:

  • What’s backing this up?
  • Have I documented the issue or expectation?
  • Am I being consistent with what I’ve said or done before?
  • Have I protected the business and respected the person?

If the answer is yes, you’re on solid ground. If not, it’s time to hit pause, gather support, and put structure around the decision.

Because your gut is powerful—but it’s not bulletproof. And your business deserves leadership that combines instinct with strategy.

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